The desire to possess something or someone exclusively is an uncivilized primitive infantile behavior. This infantile behavior when left to continue to develop unchecked and uncorrected become one of the root causes of violence, bloodshed and inhuman atrocities in adult population. Examine this video below closely.
(The original video was removed, this alternative video illustrates the same point)
a) Obsession/ Fixation - even though two toys of the same type are available, the infant toddlers would rather fight over one of them because they have become fixated on possessing/accumulating that particular toy. In adult, this obsession/fixation manifest as stalking behavior.
b) Aggressive use of force - the infant toddlers use physical force in their tug of war fight to take away the toy from each other. This use of force in time will manifest into physical violence behavior.
c) Unwillingness to share - they become distress, throw tantrum and cry aloud as soon as they loose possession of the toy. This unwillingness to share will manifest in time into the "if I can't have it, no one else will" behavior; which we will talk about next.
Now observe this next video of twin girls fighting over the toy gun.
Take note that the twins exhibit all the previously mentioned key characteristics of infantile possessiveness; but in addition, the use of force in the tug of war for the toy has manifested into physical violence. No longer are the children just pulling the toy away from each others like in the 1st video. They are now attacking and physically hitting each others. Beginning at the 2:26 minutes mark, see how one of the twin direct her aggression at the toy and start hitting it? This is the beginning of another key characteristic of infantile possessiveness; what we call "if I can't have it, no one else will" characteristic behavior. If she can't have the toy gun, then she will try to attack and destroy the toy gun to prevent the other twin from having it. Notice how the fight stop as soon as both twins are no longer in possession of the toy gun. The tension remain in a de-escalated state so long as both girls don't have possession of the toy. But the fight resume as soon as one of them pick up the toy and gain possession of it. When adults don't evolve out of this infantile possessiveness behavior, the "if I can't have it, no one else will" mentality result in horrific crimes.
This next video illustrate even more clearly the "if I can't have it, no one else will" characteristic of
infantile possessiveness behavior.
The little girl has perceived the fan as her boyfriend(i.e. she see it as her possession). First she tried to use force to pull on the fan to gain possession of it. When that failed, she turned her aggression toward the boyfriend/fan and repeatedly say "I'll cut him!" Then she proceeded to make the cutting noise and cutting motion on the fan. In essence, she is seeking to destroy the boyfriend/fan so the other girl can't have it. Note she also turned her violence on the other girl whom she perceived as the competing rival.
This infantile possessiveness is often called by another name, jealousy. Here we see in the video below how the little girl is displaying two of the key characteristics of infantile possessiveness. She perceived her mother as her possession and is unwilling to share. Every time the mother show affection to the other siblings, she comes running to separate them. Note again the aggression and use of force to push the other sibling away to possess the mother exclusively.
Again we see below how all these infants are resorting to violent aggressive behavior to separate & push away those they perceived as rivals, in their attempt to possess exclusively the person they have fixated on. Which clearly demonstrate an unwillingness to share. Note also that these infantile minds are incapable of including both parents, they can only fixate on one or the other. Although some consider it to be "cute" to see an infant slapping someone face out of jealousy, remember that the infant muscle is weak & undeveloped. When that same possessive behavior is exhibited by adults with strong and fully develop muscle, the severe injuries they cause are no longer so "cute".
Next, we see a little girl literally try to push her friend underwater because of this infantile possessiveness behavior. Consider what would happen when adults don't grow out of this infantile behavioral stage.
This infantile possessiveness behavior can also be seen in animal, as demonstrated by the following experiment.
As can be seen from the above experiment, the dogs began to exhibit violent aggressive behaviors through biting attacks the moment they perceived the stuff dog as a rival. They are exhibiting an unwillingness to share. What this experiment demonstrates is that the infantile possessiveness behavior is actually a primal animalistic behavior.
In general, children are born with primal animalistic behaviors. For example, wild animals do not control their bowel movement. When they feel the urge to urinate or defecate, they just do so. Children are born with the same lack of control over their bodily function, but civilized parents correct this by potty train their children. Wild animals don't share and resort to violent aggression to fight to possess exclusively. Children are born with the same primal unwillingness to share, but civilized parents correct this by teaching their children to share with their siblings, in order to bring peace & harmony to the household. So to be civilized is to learn to behave in a manner that is the opposite of the primal animalistic instinct that children are born with. This primal animalistic behavior was meant for the jungle environment, not for civilized environment.
Unfortunately, societies around the world through their outdated customs & cultures tend to promote exclusive possession of people and objects, like monogamy and privatization for example. And in the process, they inadvertently promote the regression of people back into an infantile state, leading to some horrific behavioral consequences.
"But they did not listen or pay attention; instead, they followed the stubborn inclinations of their evil hearts. They went backward and not forward." -- Jeremiah 7:24
Let's examine in the next section what happen when this infantile/animalistic possessiveness is not corrected, and allowed to persist into teen & adulthood.
Consequences Of Promoting Monogamy Cultures Leading To Infantile Possessive Mentality
A) Barbaric Violent Outburst Towards Perceived Rivals:
Example #1 (Ex-girlfriend attacking new girlfriend)
Example #2 (Jealous man killed ex's new boyfriend)
Example #3 (Jealous wife threw rival off a cliff)
Example #4 (Wife attacked husband pregnant mistress)
"Don't participate in the things these people do. For once you were full of darkness, but now you have light from the Lord. So live as people of light! For this light within you produces only what is good and right and true. Carefully determine what pleases the Lord. Take no part in the worthless deeds of evil and darkness; instead, expose them.... But their evil intentions will be exposed when the light shines on them, for the light makes everything visible. This is why it is said, "Awake, O sleeper, rise up from the dead, and Christ will give you light." So be careful how you live. Don't live like fools, but like those who are wise. Make the most of every opportunity in these evil days." -- Ephesians 5:7
B) Inhuman Violent Outburst Towards Those Perceived As Belonging To Them (This Is A Form Of "If I Can't Have It, No One Else Will" Infantile Possessive Behavior)
Example #1 (Ex-boyfriend tried to kill teen girl after break up)
Example #2 (Woman attack ex-boyfriend with acid)
Example #3 (Mother of 2 set on fire by ex-boyfriend for break up)
Example #4 (Student murder ex-boyfriend for having a date with Ms. Ohio)
Example #5 (Woman savagely stabbed by ex-boyfriend for breakup)
Example #6 (Victim of acid attack by ex-girlfriend)
Example #6 (Victim of acid attack by ex-girlfriend)
Note something very peculiar about what the victim said in example #6. He desires vengeance, an eye for eye, which is not justice. We will discuss this later.
As can be seen from all these examples, those societies that adopt & promote exclusive possession behavior regress people within their population back to an infantile stage; and they reap horrific consequences. Marriage is not only a form of exclusive possession, it is also a form of slavery and bondage. People have forgotten their history and the origin of marriage. Thousands of years ago, marriage was created at a time when women and children were considered chattel (personal property), a form of slavery. The wedding ceremony was a trade & a transfer of chattel property ceremony. Usually, the people of the town were gathered to bear witness to the ceremony in order to ensure that the transfer was legal and binding. And how were the town people motivated/enticed to show up to the ceremony? With free food & drink from the wedding feast. During the ceremony, the ownership of the bride (who was considered at that time a property of her father) was transferred over to the groom for goods or services rendered. This is why to this day, one can still hear the priest ask, "who gives this woman to this man?" during a wedding ceremony. To give imply ownership, otherwise how can one gives away something or someone that they do not own? One can still find examples of the true purpose of marriage around the world today.
For example, in modern day Papua New Guinea, various tribes would hire mercenaries to fight for them, and they would offer to marry off their daughters as payment for fighting services rendered. Note what is said in the video below between the 6:19 to 6:45 minutes mark.
Today we have a world filled with people who blindly perform this marriage ritual without comprehending its origin, its effects on the human psyche, and the consequences of making people think they have exclusive possession/ownership over another human being. Once people are made to believe that they have exclusive possession/ownership over someone, they become territorial over that person. And any perceive threat of loosing their "human" property/possession will trigger violent defensive behavior to keep their property. And if they aren't able to defend & keep their perceived possession, their infantile possessive mentally will trigger the "if I can't have it, no one else will" behavior outburst.
Example #7 (Wife tried to kill husband who asked for divorce)
Example #8 (Husband set wife on fire for separating)
Note carefully what she said. "There was no violence in our relationship what so ever, UNTIL... I separated from him." That's the trigger. It also implies that this behavior can't be profile accurately for, not everyone will exhibit warning behaviors. You just don't know for sure who will exhibit this infantile behavior until it is trigger. This is the consequence of living in a culture that regresses people back to their infantile possessive stage.
Example #9 (Husband killed wife after she asked for divorce)
Note the two daughters from the above video. They will have to suffer for the rest of their lives because of their parent infantile possessiveness regression, as a consequence of the monogamy way of life. Which brings us to the next point. What happen when a parent become possessive of their children? Now their children become the victim of this "if I can't have it, no one else will" infantile behavior.
Example #10 (Mom killed her 2 children to prevent husband taking custody)
Example #11 (Fireman burned his twin children in murder-suicide over divorce)
Note what the neighbor/friend said. "He loved his boys with all his heart." Which meant the fireman was very attached and possessive of his children. Guess what infantile characteristic got triggered when he lost custody in the divorce?
Example #12 (Ex-wife shot self & her two teenage children after divorce)
Example #13 (Husband poured acid on wife & 3 yrs old daughter when she asked for divorce)
Example #13 (Husband poured acid on wife & 3 yrs old daughter when she asked for divorce)
It is unfortunate that we live in a world filled with unenlightened people, so the victim or family of the victim often seek vengeance instead of justice. They mistake vengeance for justice. They are always demanding harsher and stricter punishment, an eye for an eye mentality. And it's sad that the courts and politicians are appeasing the public thirst for vengeance for the sake of voters support. If these regressed infantile behaviors are shaped by the monogamy cultures, how can one blame those who are shaped by those cultures? For example, if people train a dog to be aggressive and violent, and they take it home and it bite their children. How can they blame the dog for behaving the way it was trained? Also keep in mind that when regressed people commit these crimes, they are not thinking logically. They are controlled by emotional thinking during these periods, and punishment do not act as a deterrent. That's why people called it "crime of passion". For a punishment to act as a deterrent, requires that the person is thinking logically and consider the future consequences of their actions. If they are thinking emotionally, then they are not thinking logically. In many of these cases, the regressed person engage in murder-suicide activity. So increasing the severity of the punishment, even if it include the death penalty, would not serve to deter such people; since they are not thinking logically and they intend on committing suicide with the crime anyway.
What good is it to punish these people when the damages are already done? People are already dead or seriously disable for life. Increasing the severity of the punishment does not address the cause of the problem. It does not prevent the creation of more regressed infantile people, who will be committing such horrific crimes. By not addressing the cause and seeking punitive punishment, the cost to society keep growing larger. Consider the cost to house, feed, and provide medical care for the increasing prison inmate population. Not to mention the cost to build new prison, and to pay for all those guards and personnel to run the prison. Then there is also the cost of caring for the victims for the rest of their lives. What about the children of these tragedies? They already lost one parent to the crime, now they have to loose the other parent to imprisonment. So society now have to pay for the cost of raising these children. They will grow up with anger, mistrust, and abandonment issues; which they will bring into their monogamous relationship.
This is the stupidity of seeking vengeance (of seeking an eye for an eye), because it does not solve the problem. Vengeance does not address the cause of the problem, but justice does. True justice is seeking to identify the cause or causes of a problem and addressing them to prevent similar tragedy from occurring again in the future. Because unenlightened societies keep seeking vengeance and not justice, they don't address the cause of these infantile regression. So these same tragedies keep happening over and over again.
So how does one address the cause?
"At the resurrection people will neither marry nor be given in marriage; they will be like the angels in heaven." -- Matthew 22:30
The resurrection is symbolic for when people awoke from their ignorance and begin to exercise reasoning. Death is symbolic for ignorance, because when people are dead, their brain is also dead (i.e. they're not thinking, they're not exercising judgement & reasoning). But when they are resurrected, their brain is alive again, and they can think, reason and be aware.When people open their eyes and become aware of the horrific consequences of walking down the path of marriage and monogamy. When they come to recognize the inhuman things that people who are trap in the infantile possessive stage are capable of doing. They will naturally give up this monogamous way of life that promotes and regresses people back into their possessive infantile stage. Then.... they will be like the angels in heaven who are civilized.
Who are these angels? Angels are symbolic for sentient evolved beings who live in space or on other planets in the Universe. When we look up to the heaven, we are actually looking out into space, where other planets are located in this Universe. In the video below, consider what this angel from the planet K-PAX has to say about his civilization; about how they are able to achieve a world with lasting peace, free of violence and suffering. They freed themselves from the monogamous/nuclear family model and adopted the communal/extended family model (free of the infantile exclusive possessive mentality).
Note how the Dr. expressed concern about rape and murder, he is unable to conceive of a world that is free from such crimes. Why? Because the Dr.'s mind is trap in the monogamy mentality, and he is not able to connect the dots that monogamy is one of the main contributing causes of rape and murder. Recall the video example #8 up above. The husband tried to rape and murder his wife with gasoline when she separated from him. For millennia, plenty of women across all cultures around the world have been abused, tortured, raped or murdered whenever they try to leave a monogamous relationship. Yet all these unenlightened societies failed to connect the dots to the kind of violent behaviors promoted by monogamy. It gets even worse when those unenlightened societies legalize these infantile behaviors through laws. For example, a few societies today still have laws that allow the stoning of a woman for adultery. The woman have done no physical harm to anyone, yet people are allow to murder her in the most grotesque & barbaric way; simply because she refuse to be treated as exclusive property and choose of her own free will to be with another person.
Once the root causes for infantile regression are removed, then we will naturally have a civilization free from violent crimes and oppression. That is why all civilized angel societies that achieve lasting peace, have one thing in common. They evolved out of their infancy stage. They overcame the need for exclusive possession, whether it is the need for exclusive human or material possession. Some of our founding fathers, who were highly intelligent had similar awareness about 200 years ago.
"As long as Property exists, it will accumulate in Individuals and Families. As long as Marriage exists, Knowledge, Property and Influence will accumulate in Families." -- John Adams, letter to Thomas Jefferson, July 16, 1814
Captain Picard:"A lot has changed in the last 300 years. People are no longer obsessed with the... accumulation of things. We have eliminated hunger, want, the need for possessions. We've grown out of our infancy."
How did they achieve this? What motivated them to grow out of their infancy? Let's find out.
Klaatu:
"Your problem is not technology. The problem is you. You lack the will to change.... You treat the world as you treat each others.... Our sun was dying. We had to evolve in order to survive."
Crisis Gives Infantile Societies "The Will" To Evolve
Intentional crises are created to motivate people to change their infantile behaviors, to give the unenlightened masses the will to evolve out of their infancy. Why? The only way for the human species to survive the real crisis of a global environmental collapse is to evolve out of our infancy. Man-made crises are within mankind control, they can start and stop them. But the real global environmental collapse is out of mankind control. Humanity cannot stop it, but we can survive its collapse. But only as an evolved species that is capable of loving each others & working together, instead of back stabbing each others, preying upon each others & profiting off of each others. These man-made crises also serve another purpose. That is to eliminate those who refuse to evolve out of their infancy (those who cling to the ways of violence, greed, irresponsibility, etc...), so that they don't become a threat to those who have evolved when the real crisis comes. THEIR justification & logic behind this is very simple. If the evolved die at the hands of the infantile ones, then those who cling to the infantile ways will also die when the real crisis comes, and the species will go extinct. But if those who cling to the infantile ways die, the evolved will live, and the human species will be able to work together to survive the real crisis & avoid extinction. That is why intentional crises are being created now, so that the infantile ones will turn on each others and eliminate themselves before the real crisis arrives. THEY are doing this for your protection & to prevent our species extinction. Violent infantile people who refuse to evolve are capable of doing horrific things when they are desperate during a crisis; due to their unwillingness to share mentality (We will go into more details about this global cleansing purge at another time in a different blog).
SECRET for civilized communities to survive the global cleansing purge: "Never go to war.... especially with yourself."
(....and so it's a calculated plan to bringing the guns, and bringing the violence into a community.)
Now compare the version told by the current and ex-gang members to the version told by the news agency below. Note how they down play how often it happens as well as the numbers/volume of weapons being stolen. (If these were just random acts of theft as portrayed by the news, how did the street kids know when and which rail cars have the weapons to heist? And according to the gang members version, this has been happening on a consistent basis since the 1960's... And no change in security protocol were made? Starting to see the BIG picture?)
The techniques that were tried, tested, & perfected on one impoverished racial group, are now being implemented on the affluent and on the rest of the other racial groups. (Guns & ammunition are given freely to impoverished violent people on the one hand, while on the other hand they are sold to affluent violent people for profit. Armed violent impoverished people commit crimes with these weapons, which naturally strike fear in the violent affluent & create a demand for guns in the violent affluent population to "protect" themselves. Starting to see the trap being set up? Recall the message in the "Lord of War" scene up above. THEIR goal is to get all the infantile violent people arm, so they can be busied killing each others. )
Recall the technique that was used back in the 60's, as mentioned in the previous video up above. Is there any difference between leaving an unlock van filled with weapons in the poor ghetto of the 60's, and leaving an unlock patrol car with weapons in the affluent suburb of today? And this is not an isolated incident. Police all over the country are leaving their weapons in their unattended patrol cars to be stolen (plausible deniability). Are we getting smart yet? Starting to connect the dots?
(No signs of forced entry into these vehicles.... ????)
(Note what was said above. The key to the gun rack was in the car to be stolen with the gun. The same gun that was supposedly secured to the gun rack. Say what?!?!)
(Note what the private seller said. He got the gun from the police. Now he's re-selling it to an unknown buyer with no paper work, no ID check, no back ground check. No means to track the gun.)
(Guns are sold to violent criminal gangs, with no means of tracking these guns. Starting to see a pattern here?)
(THEY are giving everyone fair warning; that THEY are cleansing this world of ALL the monsters.)
So if you don't want to be cleansed, then:
a) don't become a monster, and
b) don't be caught inside a society that create monsters - (THEY judge the entire society.)
c) don't allow monsters to join your community, otherwise THEY will judge your community as a society of monsters.
c) don't allow monsters to join your community, otherwise THEY will judge your community as a society of monsters.
"Then said Jesus unto him, Put up again thy sword into his place: for all they that take the sword shall perish with the sword." -- Matthew 26:52
"And I heard another voice from heaven, saying, Come out of her, my people, that ye be not partakers of her sins, and that ye receive not of her plagues." -- Revelation 18:4
So what is a monster? Let's find out....
Humanity were given several thousands years to self-correct our infantile barbaric "monstrous" behaviors, but we human have failed to do so. So now THEY have stepped in to create the necessary crises to motivate and to cleanse the species. It's out of our hands now, but we can self-motivate ourselves & evolve in order to work together to form civilized communities that can survive these man-made crises, as well as survive the eventual real crisis. Note the clues given to those who are paying attention.
Did you catch the clues?
"Everybody got the memo.... It's a crisis and a murder, whenever you see both of us in the booth. It can be an interpretation of a catastrophic event. Of verbal annihilation if you don't know the Truth. It's a crisis and a murder, whenever you see both of us in a rage. It can be any murder scene, making you have to evacuate the premises, killing the audience up on the stage."
"All the world's a stage, And all the men and women merely players;" -- William Shakespeare
Crisis definition: a condition of instability or danger, as in social, economic, political, or international affairs, leading to a decisive change.
Crises create shock and awe. Shock motivate infantile primitive brains to learn and change behaviors. Consider how shock was used to motivate the primitive rat brain to learn and change behaviors in the video below.
How do we know that THEY are going to shock all the nations of this world to change their infantile behaviors? Because THEY sent out the following message to warn & inform the public well ahead of time, several decades ago back in 1982.
Note that the message "shock the monkey" was written in various different languages from around the world. In other words, this message was being sent out to all the nations around the world. Which is why in the previous "Crisis" music video, the lyrics said "Everybody got the memo". Now whether people paid attention to the memo or not, that's not THEIR concern. THEY are only required to give the warnings, THEY are not required to ensure that the people pay attention to the warnings. Consider carefully what the lyrics said:
"Something's burning. Don't like it, but I guess I'm learning. Shock. Shock. Shock. Watch the monkey get hurt.... And the news is breaking. Shock. Shock. Shock. Watch the monkey get hurt. Monkey. Shock the monkey. Shock the monkey to life. Shock the monkey to life."
We human are primates. So to "shock the monkey to life" is symbolic for shocking the talking primates of this world to evolve out of our infancy; which will lead to the path of life. Because the infantile mentality path leads to conflicts, destruction & death of the human species.
Here's a similar message that THEY sent out to the public: "No one's telling you how to live your life. But it's a set up, until you're fed up."
Isn't it interesting that all of a sudden, all these crises started unfolding all over the world. From financial crisis, to foreign & domestic terrorist crisis, to drug epidemic crisis, to riots/civil unrest crisis, to school shooting crisis, etc... And they all seem to be synchronized with the unfolding environmental destruction. All of these crises are part of this global "shock" behavioral correction program. When a particular society becomes fed up by all these crises. That society will be motivated to start trying different behaviors like in the rat experiment, until they stumble upon the right set of behaviors that will allow them to avoid & survive these crises. We are just ahead of the class, the "A-" students; so we comprehend what are the right set of behaviors needed for the prototype community to avoid & survive these crises. Being able to avoid & survive these crises "shock" is the equivalent of having the shock turns off when the rat performs the right behavior in the experiment.
(To be continued in "Part 2 - Community Orgy: A Foundational Component For Community Peace, Harmony, Compassion & Longevity.") Click here.
Clue for those with humility and a gentle heart to comprehend:
There is too much violance in society today and I love the idea of this community to be very loving and kind and caring for one another. I would like to know more about this community and how to become a part of it. This feels like my kind of future.
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